For the host with the most, the best gifts are the ones that make their next gathering feel even more special.
From clever serving pieces to beautiful barware and table details, these are picks designed for the person who loves turning a simple get-together into an occasion. Thoughtful, useful and just personal enough to make them feel truly appreciated.
Whether you’re arriving at a Christmas drinks party or saying thank you after a long, lazy Sunday lunch, here’s our edit.
Raise a Glass
Because every good evening starts with the first pour.
For the wine lover
Yara Tortoiseshell Wine Glasses, Set of Two
Tortoiseshell bowls on rich brown stems make this pair from Oliver Bonas feel collected rather than bought. They arrive in a custom gift box, so there’s no wrapping panic on the doorstep.
Shop now, £22.50
For the after-dinner crowd
Espresso Martini Stripe Saucers, Set of Two
Wide coupe bowls, slender clear stems and cocoa-brown stripes give these saucers a seventies supper-club swagger. Made for espresso martinis, equally happy with a glass of fizz.
Shop now, £28
The ready-made present
The White Wine & Chocolate Gift Box
A wooden box holding a bottle of Collection Gavi di Gavi, Golden Blond Salted Caramels and a bar of Single Origin Milk Chocolate. Zesty, sweet and a far better arrival than the bottle grabbed on the way over.
Shop now, £38Behind the Bar
For the friend who’s always the one shaking the cocktails.
The home mixologist
Midnight Luxe 6 Piece Bar Tool Set
A six-piece kit for the drinks trolley, so the shaking, stirring and straining all happen with the proper tools. As the name hints, it’s made for after-dark glamour.
Shop now, £30.66
Craft with a conscience
Rattan Ice Bucket with Tongs
Woven by artisans in Burma, Rebecca Udall’s chestnut-brown ice bucket comes with a lid, an insulated liner and tongs that sit in their own holder. Buying it helps rural communities keep their traditional craft skills alive.
Shop now, £78
For the bookshelf and the bar
Cocktails at Larry’s
This hardback is the menu from Larry’s, the underground speakeasy at the National Portrait Gallery, named after Sir Laurence Olivier. Each drink is inspired by a portrait in the collection, from The Cecil Beaton to the Dirty Martini McBean, with the story behind it.
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The little extra
Say When Print
A bottle of Pinot mid-pour against a deep red background, with two words every host knows well. An exclusive design from Desenio’s Stockholm atelier, made for the kitchen wall or the bar corner.
Shop now, from £3.82Serve It Up
For the one who feeds everyone, and loves every minute.
Table-ready
Roda Antique Brass Serving Set, Set of 3
Three antique brass serving pieces from Nkuku, with the warm, softly aged finish that makes a table look as if it’s been laid with love for years.
Shop now, £38
Under £20
Set of 2 Glass Oil Pourers with Caddy
Ribbed glass, cork stoppers and an acacia wood caddy to keep the pair together. Fill one with olive oil and one with balsamic, and they’ll earn a permanent place on the table.
Shop now, £16
For the cook
The Kew Gardens Cookbook
More than 60 vegetarian recipes, donated by chefs and food writers to support the Royal Botanic Gardens, Kew. It’s arranged by plant, from leaves and roots to fungi, herbs and fruit, and it’s full of ideas for the next gathering.
Shop now, £20Set the Scene
Candlelight, conversation and the small details guests always notice.
Pure charm
A Pair of Golden Mouse Candle Holders
Two antique gold mice, each 15cm tall, holding a single candle and arriving in its own gift box. Whimsical without being silly, and a guaranteed talking point down the middle of the dinner table.
Shop now, £34.95
The festive glow
Winter Thyme Christmas Gold Multiwick Candle
Hand-poured, half-dipped in gold and presented in an illustrated box, St Eval’s pillar candle blends rosemary and thyme with winter woods. St Eval says it burns for 90 hours, enough to carry them through the whole party season.
Shop now, £40
The stocking filler
Black & Gold Celestial Matches
A star-strewn box of 125 long black matches with white tips, made with FSC-certified wood and wrapped in compostable cello. Pretty enough to leave out beside the candles, which is exactly the point.
Shop now, £9.95Guest-Ready
For the host who thinks of everything, right down to the cloakroom.
Scent the room
Autumn Walk 150ml Diffuser
Ripe fig, warming cinnamon and cedar, housed in a glazed ceramic vessel. M&S says it lasts up to 19 weeks, so it will still be going long after the last guest has left.
Shop now, £20
The thoughtful touch
Geranium Leaf Hand Care Gift Set
Made in the UK with oatmeal extract and borage oil, St Eval’s hand care is vegan, free from SLS and parabens, and never tested on animals. Set it beside the guest basin and every visitor will notice.
Shop now, £29.50Just for Them
Because the host deserves a little something that isn’t for sharing.
The wind-down
Little Christmas Cottage
Bramley’s festive cottage gathers a hand cream, body lotion, pillow spray and votive candle, each made with naturally fragrant essential oils. It’s exactly what they’ll need once the last dish is dried.
Shop now, £36
Send it the morning after
Joyeux Noël Letterbox Gift
Glitter socks, a pink satin eye mask, mini bath salts, a Christmas cracker chocolate bar, a Joma Jewellery bracelet and a ceramic heart for the tree, all sized to slip through the letterbox. It’s a pamper night in a box for the host who has more than earned one.
Shop now, £48
Bath-time treat
Vanity Beauty Bag Gift Set
A luxe vanity bag holding crème bath bubbles, shower crème, hand and body lotion and a body polisher. A proper soak, sorted.
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New on 1 December
Bella Cucina Mama Mug
A sweet nod from Oliver Bonas to the one whose kitchen is always the heart of the party. It lands on 1 December, so keep it in mind for a later visit.
Shop now, £12.50
Small but special
The Flower Garden Velvet Zipped Pouch
Garden flowers, a butterfly and a bee, beaded and embroidered on powder-blue cotton velvet and finished with a pale pink tassel. At 20 x 15cm, it’s just right for lipstick, keys and little treasures.
Shop now, £15.95
For the curious foodie
Food: Bigger than the Plate
The official book of the V&A exhibition explores how food could be fairer, more sustainable and still delicious, from urban farming and public feasts to edible insects. It’s a thought-provoking pick for the coffee table.
Shop now, £25All prices are correct at the time of publishing and may change.
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